There are many theories on the laws of attraction. In my humble opinion and based on my window to the world (or at least Bow Street in Freeport), it appears to me that like-attracts-like.There are contests for pets that resemble their owners. Over the years sometimes married couples may seem to look similar. But have you ever noticed how friends look like each other, too? Coincidence? Perhaps. But I think not. Somehow it happens.
Take notice. Look at friends huddled around a table in the coffee shop. Check out friends meeting in the hotel lobby before going shopping. Odds are pretty good that they will strongly resemble each other. Now it is not the physical features. Instead pay attention to the style of clothes or the type of accessories.This is not to mean that friends wear the exact same item (we all know what kind of commotion that would cause if true) but they often wear the same style.
I have witnessed dozens and dozens of folks shopping Bow Street. Most often I can easily match friends to friends. A few weeks ago, three women entered the store looking like Charlie's Angels. Long legs and short skirts. Bangles clanking and flip-flops snapping. They could not have been more exact than if they had coordinated a uniform. This is a careful observation – not judgment – of the beauty of friendship.
I realize some folks will declare to be the opposite of their friend. And yet, from my perspective, most of the friends shopping together are bound by similar ways of wearing a ponytail or a scarf. So, I merely suggest take a minute to look across the table at your friend. You just might see some object quite familiar reflecting back at you.
Of Note: As I was writing, Alex and Sam (note the pretty neck scarfs) came into the store. They graciously agreed for their picture to be taken before each purchased a pink, whale tail wristlet for themselves.